Restore your soul.

Flourish in life and leadership.

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Who We Are

Leaders Who Understand the Weight You Carry

After decades in ministry, we know firsthand how heavy leadership can feel—and how easy it is to neglect your own soul in the process. Soul Care Matters was born from our own journey through burnout and renewal. Today, we walk alongside pastors, leaders, and couples to help them restore their souls, rediscover joy, and lead from a place of wholeness.

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restoration stories

What Others Are Experiencing

We’ve had the privilege of walking alongside pastors, leaders, and couples as they discover rest and wholeness in Jesus. Here’s what a few of them have shared about their journey with Soul Care Matters.

As a pastor of 22 years and now a counselor, I’ve experienced many forms of ministry care — but the Soul Care Matters Retreat with Merle and Karen was uniquely restorative. They created a sacred space and time for us to slow down, breathe deeply, and to better know ourselves and our God. I can say with full confidence that this retreat offers more than rest — it offers renewal. If you’re longing to live and lead from a place of wholeness, this is a retreat I wholeheartedly recommend.

Josh Hedger
Co-Founder
Hedger Counseling and Consulting

Attending the Soul Care Matters retreat was a truly transformative experience. I arrived unsure of what to expect, but was immediately struck by the beauty of the setting and the peaceful atmosphere it created. Sharing the weekend with five other couples fostered a sense of community and connection that was both comforting and enriching. The experiential activities—like selecting a rock that represented my soul and shaping play dough to reflect the current state of my soul—were a lot out of my comfort zone but offered a creative and introspective way to explore my inner life. One of the key elements was the intentional focus on silence, solitude, and sabbath. These themes were not only discussed but gently woven into the rhythm of the retreat, especially during the generous free time that allowed us to truly experience stillness. I left with a renewed appreciation for the importance of caring for my soul—not as a luxury, but as a necessity. A well-cared-for soul, I discovered, is not only more resilient but also more joyful. This retreat was a gift, and its impact continues to unfold in my daily life.

Dan Shotts
Chief Financial Officer
Avante and Crossworld Ministries

Shaping the soul to flourish in life and lead with wholeness.

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